Forbidden by Tabitha Suzuma

Forbidden by Tabitha SuzumaForbidden by Tabitha Suzuma
Published by Definitions on May 27th 2010
Genres: New Adult, Love & Romance, Family, Social Issues
Pages: 432
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She is pretty and talented – sweet sixteen and never been kissed. He is seventeen; gorgeous and on the brink of a bright future. And now they have fallen in love. But… they are brother and sister.
Seventeen-year-old Lochan and sixteen-year-old Maya have always felt more like friends than siblings. Together they have stepped in for their alcoholic, wayward mother to take care of their three younger siblings. As defacto parents to the little ones, Lochan and Maya have had to grow up fast. And the stress of their lives—and the way they understand each other so completely—has also also brought them closer than two siblings would ordinarily be. So close, in fact, that they have fallen in love. Their clandestine romance quickly blooms into deep, desperate love. They know their relationship is wrong and cannot possibly continue. And yet, they cannot stop what feels so incredibly right. As the novel careens toward an explosive and shocking finale, only one thing is certain: a love this devastating has no happy ending.

It has taken me a long time to write this review. It is rare for a book to evoke such strong emotions in me. It left me speechless and heartbroken, and my thoughts wandered back to the story for a quite a while after I had finished it. Without a doubt this book could have been a train wreck, but instead I found a beautiful tale about two people that fell in love with each other in the worst circumstances imaginable. What hit me hardest about Forbidden was how well Tabitha Suzuma depicted the complete hopelessness of Lochan and Maya’s situation and the utter desperation they had to face. It isn’t a book that glamourizes or romanticises incest. It isn’t an angst filled novel about star-crossed lovers. The way I see it, it is a story about family, the danger of neglect, the weight of responsibility. It is a sad story for sure and one that will leave you thinking about taboo issues. On top of everything else and despite the parts that may be tough, I found the novel addictive and impossible to put down.
The story follows a British family living in London. The dad doesn’t live there anymore, he moved to Australia with his new wife and never even bothers to contact his children. Then we have the mother, a drunk who spends all her days away from home with her new boyfriend and barely makes enough money to support the family. And then there are the five children: Lochan, the oldest son and de facto care-taker of the family, Maya who is only a year younger then him and helps support the family, and the three youngsters: Kit, Tiffin and Willa. Lochan and Maya have always had a relationship that is different from that of your average siblings; they support each other and basically share parenting roles the way a couple would. And so it seems almost inevitable that feelings between them develop.
Before I go any further let me give you a short breakdown of my inner dialogue while reading this book (you’re going to think I’m the strangest person on the planet, lol):
Chant #1: Okay, this is seriously weird.
Chant #2: No! I love it, they have SO much chemistry!
# 1: They are brother and sister, there is no such thing as sexual chemistry between siblings.
# 2: Well clearly you’re wrong because these two definitely have it. I wish more new adult books would have such a slow-burn romance.
# 1: Slow-burn romance?! What are you talking about? It’s disgusting!
# 2: But they are so cute together! I’m totally rooting for them.
# 1: Um, you do know that what they’re doing is against the law, right?
# 2: I know. And I know that Suzuma isn’t trying to say that incest is okay, but maybe it is something we have to think about. To question. There are different types of love and they diverge from the norm but what is so wrong about that? If they don’t have children and both are consenting…
# 1: It’s just…not right! It’s disgusting and sick and creepy…
# 2: But why is it wrong? Do you have an answer? They aren’t hurting anyone, they’re happy together, so why is it considered so unthinkable that it’s against the law?
# 1: …
Maybe it was easier for me to get over the fact of what Maya and Lochan were doing because I’m an only child. I don’t know. But in any case, Forbidden is an excellently written book that doesn’t try to force on you some kind of moral message, yet still makes you question our societal norms. And that is worth a lot.
Lochan was a fantastic character. Well-developed and complex, he made me feel his pain and desperation and truly brought home the misery of the situation. He struggles with social anxiety and the empathy I felt for him was through the roof; all I wanted was for him to be all right, to not go crazy, to stay strong. He is deeply troubled and loathes himself and I think it is that self-hatred more than anything that made this novel so gut-wrenching and memorable.
In comparison, Maya falls surprisingly flat. I couldn’t really establish any connection; I cared much less about her than I did about her brother. She is your stereotypical good girl: pretty and popular, sweet and sensible, incredibly naïve. While we really got to witness Lochan’s inner turmoil, Maya displays none of the same “symptoms” and that made me think that she was either way too perfect, or seriously stupid. There is one scene in the book with Maya and her best friend Francie that made cringe: Francie is your typical contemporary best friend, meaning all she cares about are guys and it’s seemingly the only subject she thinks about (I’m assuming it is to display how “pure” Maya is) and Francie comments on the fact that Maya is the only girl in the class that doesn’t wear make-up (but obviously she still gets the hottest guy in school to ask her out). It’s a very small thing but it bothered me to no end; I just really hate when authors put their female MC above all the other girls because they don’t wear make-up or short dresses or whatever.
Another character I loved was Kit. He was bratty and annoying but beneath that façade he was also very complex. I understood where he was coming from and the way he acted even if I didn’t agree with the way he showed his feelings.
Tiffin and Willa were plot devices more than fully fleshed out characters, but it didn’t bother me as much as I thought it would.
Another question mark I have is with the parents. I kind of struggled with the fact that two people could truly be that terrible. The father was described as being a kind and caring person and so I found it a little difficult to believe he would just abandon his children like that. Similarly, there wasn’t a single redeeming feature about the mother, she was horrible through and through. Probably this is me being very naïve and privileged and whatnot but it’s hard for me to believe that parents could care so little about their children (at least under these circumstances).
Overall though and despite my complaints I truly loved this book. It was raw and emotional and the ending was one of the best that I’ve ever read in any book. It was shocking and tragic and basically exactly what needed to happen. The epilogue was beautiful and perfectly rounded off the story.
I highly recommend this novel even though I know that it won’t be for everyone. I think that if you go in with an open mind you will find something to cherish in this sad, unconventional story.

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  1. I’ve had this on my TBR for at least a year and a half now. I read part of it in an anthology book I read earlier in this year, and I really enjoyed it. I just need to get around to reading it now.
    I like books that make me think, so I’m looking forward to reading it when I finally get around to it.

  2. I read this book about 3-4 years ago, and I have to say I completely agree with your review. It’s such an emotionally complex novel that gets you to question ideals and really opens your mind. You have basically covered everything I felt about the book so thank you. I’m glad I’m not the only person that feels that way! It been the type of book it is, I’ve always felt awkward talking about it with friends because people are just so judgemental despite the fact that the book DOES NOT justify or encourage incest. It merely shows a more complicated and hopelessly sad aside to it. My favourite part of the book has to be the ending. It was so endearingly heartbreaking and perfectly made. It was an impossible situation that was never going to end well and it ending the way it did, as sad as it may be, fitted the tone of the book.
    It’s one of the better I’ve read and I’m hope other people will read the review above and agree.

    • I completely agree with you and I understand what you mean by people being judgmental. It’s like the word “incest” already triggers negative feelings and people don’t want to read the book simply because they are disgusted by the thought. They automatically see a romance between brother and sister as being a sort of promotion of incest, instead of just an appeal to think about our taboos.
      The ending is my favorite part as well, it was perfectly executed.
      All in all, an excellent novel and I’m glad you enjoyed it!

  3. I had this book in my TBR since 2012, but a freind of mine had told me it was really bad, and so I removed it. Then, I added it again and couple of months ago. Your review only makes me glad I did so! I’ve never read a book about incest, and the fact that this one doesn’t romanticize it makes me more excited. Great review!

    • Do you know why your friend didn’t like it? Did she feel it sent a wrong message? It’s interesting how different people interpret books in different ways. I definitely didn’t feel it romanticized incest.
      I really hope you enjoy it! Thank you!

      • Yes, it was because she couldn’t stand a relationship like taht between two brothers and also, she thought it was promoting incest. From what I read in other reviews, I don’t think that’s the case, but to each their own.

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